misunderstandings

I cannot remember when was the last time i started an argument with someone. Sure... there are times where ppl say things that offend me, but i always tell myself to question the person's intentions first. wad is the point of getting angry and snapping at the person, only to realise it is just a case of miscommunication or misunderstanding, and then having to apologize ... or not *because some ppl's ego are too fking big*. It is just stupid. a waste of time and energy.

*this is the most important point of this post, the rest are just rants*




Ppl just do not understand this. i dun mean to be bias but it is ALWAYS *usually* the girls who do this. And the scenario is always *usually always* like this:

1) i say something

2) they misinterprete

3) they scold me

4) i explain

5) they scold me again

6) i apologize

7) they start a cold war




now this is just something my feeble mind cannot comprehend. logically, things should stop at no. 4 and ended with a "everything goes back to normal". but nope, they just HAVE to run u down again. ok, so assuming that they scold again because they are still in a heated state, shldn't everything end by no. 6? But nooooooooooooooooooo this does not happen! they just need to start a COLD WAR!! WHY AR??? WHY AR???

this is so stupid. And the thing is some ppl dun think *i am getting a personal here*. There are so many ways to interpret a sentence, u chose the one that makes u angry, consciously or not. And then u just snap, refusing to consider the other possibilities. i explain to u, u give back a screwed up reply. and then u continue being angry *cold war*. u do not understand wad its like to the other party *me*. You do not understand how you are destroying ur own image.


Imagine u telling a friend "hello".

then the friend suddenly says " wad do u mean by hello??? are u disrespecting me???"

And then u reply "no i am just greeting u what".

And then the friend reply " Greet me for wad?? Did i say you can greet me??" *see what i mean by a screwed up reply to my explanation?*

wad else can u say to this? i tell u wad i said, " erm ok, sorry for greeting you."

and then the cold war. whoooo~

life rocks when u deal with ppl like this. no matter wad reason one have for behaving this way, u cannot blame the other party for getting pissed with u. here i am, with good intentions trying to get smt done and then this happens. So wad if u were angry with me before *totally diff matter in which also pisses me off*? Behaving this way is so totally uncalled for

It is like saying, the person who i am angry with comes saying hello and i just give him a kick in the balls and saying: "THAT, was for saying hello to me."

yea i know that i sound mean but i still cant get over it, cause it really felt like a kick in the balls to me.